Dates.care

Dating, done properly.

Dates.care is an online dating service for people who are serious about connection. Verified profiles, thoughtful matching, and real conversations. Browsing and your first message to every connection are always free.

How Dates.care works

Create a real profile. Add your photos and verify who you are. Verification is what keeps this a community of real people.
Match on what matters. Browse and like freely. Matching weighs what you are actually looking for.
Talk, meet, connect. Message, call, or send a gift. Your first message to every new connection is free.

What you can do

Private messaging. One-to-one conversations with photo sharing.
Video and audio calls. Meet face to face before you meet in person.
Virtual gifts. Over a hundred hand-drawn gifts.
Mail. Longer letters for conversations that deserve more than a chat window.
Relationship support. Couple therapy and counselling from qualified practitioners.

Built on trust

Verified profiles. Photo and identity verification keeps fake accounts out.
Active moderation. Automated moderation on photos and messages, plus one-tap reporting everywhere.
Your data stays yours. We never sell personal data, and you can delete your account at any time.

Signing in, and what we ask for

You can create your account with an email address and password, or with Google, Facebook or Apple. If you choose one of those, we ask that provider for three things only: your name, your email address and your profile picture. We use them to create your Dates.care account, to sign you in again on your next visit, and to fill in your profile.

We never request access to your mail, contacts, calendar or files, we never post anything on your behalf, and we do not sell or share what we receive. You can disconnect at any time. The full detail is in our privacy policy.

What it costs

No subscription. Creating an account, building a profile, browsing members and your first message to every new connection are always free. Credits pay for the extras and do not expire.

Message after the first — 10 credits
Virtual gift — from 5 credits
Super like — 25 credits
Profile boost, 30 minutes — 50 credits
Audio call — 50 credits
Video call — 100 credits

Credit packs: Starter 50 + 10 bonus for $12.99, Popular 100 + 25 bonus for $18.99, Premium 450 + 50 bonus for $50.99. Prices in US dollars; tax is calculated at checkout for your country.